Best New York suburbs for families

Ranked on a families weighting: schools at 30%, amenities within two miles at 20%, and the four poll questions about children, safety and sidewalks at 20%. Cost still counts, at 15%. The full weighting is shown at the bottom, and it is not the same as the overall score.

Updated Sep 2026·60 suburbs considered, 10 listed
1
The "Be Fort Lee" sign in Fort Lee Park, Fort Lee, New Jersey
Fort Lee$448k median · 35.0 min commute
Schools AAmenities A+Residents inactive
78
Family score
overall 63 C+
2
View of Hudson Street to the north, Hoboken, New Jersey.
Hoboken$895k median · 36.8 min commute
Schools B+Amenities A+Residents inactive
76
Family score
overall 69 B−
3
Downtown Westfield
Westfield$953k median · 36.7 min commute
Schools A+Amenities B+Residents inactive
75
Family score
overall 70 B−
4
Nassau University Medical Center photographed from the northwest just before sunset
East Meadow$632k median · 35.0 min commute
Schools AAmenities BResidents inactive
74
Family score
overall 65 C+
5
Radburn shopping center (Radburn Plaza Building?), near Radburn station, en:Fair Lawn, New Jersey.
Fair Lawn$565k median · 31.3 min commute
Schools AAmenities BResidents inactive
74
Family score
overall 65 C+
6
Faux lighthouse at Oceanside, Nassau county, New York with flag
Oceanside$634k median · 36.3 min commute
Schools A−Amenities A+Residents inactive
74
Family score
overall 63 C+
7
The NRHP-listed Franklin National Bank, on the southwest corner of Hempstead Turnpike (NY 24) and James Street, in Franklin Square, New York. Currently a Chase
Franklin Square$657k median · 34.6 min commute
Schools A−Amenities AResidents inactive
73
Family score
overall 63 C+
8
Levittown$591k median · 33.5 min commute
Schools AAmenities BResidents inactive
72
Family score
overall 64 C+
9
View of the Empire State Building in New York City from the Top of the Rock at 30 Rockefeller Plaza during sunset. The tower was illuminated in green in honor o
New York$778k median · 40.3 min commute
Schools —Amenities A+Residents inactive
72
Family score
overall 52 D+
10
Valley Stream$616k median · 40.7 min commute
Schools B+Amenities AResidents inactive
69
Family score
overall 59 C
This list's weighting
Schools 30%Amenities 20%Resident poll (Q2, Q5, Q6, Q8) 20%Cost of living 15%Housing 10%Commute 5%

Poll components only count for places with eight or more resident responses; for the others the remaining weights re-normalise to 100%.

Photos from Wikimedia Commons: Fort Lee (RyeCityRoller · CC BY-SA 4.0); Hoboken (King of Hearts · CC BY-SA 4.0); Westfield (Freeholdman12 · CC BY 4.0); East Meadow (Sean Helling · CC BY-SA 4.0); Fair Lawn (Rickyrab · CC BY-SA 3.0); Oceanside (CaptJayRuffins · CC BY-SA 4.0); Franklin Square (DanTD · CC BY-SA 4.0); New York (Dllu · CC BY-SA 4.0).